Moving to Florence is getting back on track, focused for the new year, with much more useful information. I probably said it once before but I only post about what I know so here's the first of many posts about moving to Florence through marriage. If you marry an Italian citizen OR any EU citizen that is a resident in Italy, you can petition to join them in Italy. I'll start with getting married, the subsequent family visa and permesso di soggiorno and finally citizenship.
It is not a stretch to say that "getting things done" in the most general of ways is easier in the US and probably Canada. All of us American citizens know that we can look online for information, call and ask a question or even head down to the main office and check things out. Most of the time we'll get the official line and not have to worry about whether or not it's right or wrong . We take this for granted until we move to Italy.
Based on what I experienced and questura horror stories I've heard, I'm going out on my limb to say that in my opinion, it is much easier to bring your fiance to the US and get married there. The registration, the license, the everything seems so much easier than doing it in Italy. You want to avoid the questura at all costs and if you are marrying in Florence it will become your second home.
When you marry in your home country you also have the advantage of being completely in your rights and not in violation of any laws. As an expat, in general, and especially if you are an illegal expat in Florence, the burden is on you to explain what in the world you are doing and that you are not getting married just to legalize yourself. At home it's no questions asked. You go to the registrar, pay your money and get your license.
State marriage laws vary but a quick check your state's website or an
informational website will get you all of the information you need.
Once married, it's time for your visa. You need the following documents
Long stay visa application (available on consulate website)
One passport photo
Copy of Marriage Certificate
Copy of Spouse's Passport ( picture and signature pages)
Declaration from Spouse ( available on consulate website)
Italian Registration of Marriage - process varies by consulate but you will usually need to get a long form copy of your marriage certificate, get it notarized and stamped, take it to the Apostille office to get another stamp and then send it off to the comune where your spouse is a resident.
The only one that takes a bit of time to get is your marriage registration in Italy. It can take up to three weeks for them to register your marriage and send it the home address in Italy.
The family reunion visa is free, because you know, you're practically Italian and shouldn't take more than 2 weeks. It's good for 1 year and affords you all the rights of an Italian citizen. The right to work, pension, health care, residency etc.
Now you could go on like this for years but after 2 you may apply for citizenship, 3 if you and your husband live abroad.
Next step, move to Florence ...